“She’s really into style,” says her mother Najla Abdullah, who attended the same public school as a child. “I can see I really need to build Islamic fundamentals with her,” she adds earnestly in an interview with Sound Vision.
Zaahira’s interest in the rock band and body ornamentation through the influence of friends and her teacher speaks to the power of public schools to shape the attitudes of most Muslim children in North America.
Zaahirah will be starting grade three
in September. She is one of the 98 percent of Muslim children in the United
States who attend public schools. And it’s her generation over whom the
debate about sending Muslim children to Muslim or public school currently
BETTER ENVIRONMENT IN MUSLIM SCHOOLS
The strongest argument in favor of sending children to Muslim schools is the surrounding environment. Muslim kids in most of these schools pray, interact with other Muslim kids in classes and during breaks, and generally have less exposure to drugs, alcohol and violence. It’s also a place to build identity and security.
“Had one [a Muslim school] been available in the city, they [her parents] would definitely have sent me,” says Abdullah. “I think they would definitely have wanted me to have that sense of camraderie, and that strength of people around you who are of the same faith and are there to support [you].”
“A Muslim school is the only place where they [Muslim kids] will ever have the chance to develop an identity that says, ‘Hey, these are my people. I belong to an identifiable community,’” writes New-York based Muslim school teacher Yahiya Emerick in an e-mail interview with Sound Vision. He has worked full-time in two Islamic schools, one in Michigan and the other in New York.
Apart from providing a “community” atmosphere, this school environment instills certain values in Muslim children.
Muslim schools give Muslim kids a sense of self-worth, pride and cultural identity they could never get in a public school, says Sharifa Alkhateeb, president of the Muslim Education Council, VA. The organization educates educators and administrators about Islam, Muslims, Muslim families and Middle Eastern culture.
A sense of identity comes not just from being with other Muslim kids but also with the memories of praying, hearing the Adhan and discussing Islamic issues. For the child, “that’s invaluable,” says the mother of three.
THE PERCEPTION OF
MUSLIM SCHOOLS AS “HOLDING TANKS”
“What usually happens is that when Ahmad Doe realizes his kid is turning into a foul-mouthed wretch with bad values and such, they look for a quick fix and toss him in an Islamic school. In one school I worked in, fully a third of the kids fit this description,” writes Emerick.
This is the double edged sword of providing a comparatively better environment than most public schools, especially a Muslim environment. It has led to some parents whose kids have gotten out of control in public school to dump them into Muslim schools.
Alkhateeb says this leads parents to seeing these schools as “holding tanks “ that will take control the bad influence of public schools on their kids.
Emerick, who has experienced first-hand
such casualties of the public school system adds, “to all who complain
about Muslim schools having bad
kids too, remember they didn't come in as good kids. They came in as public
MORE ISLAMIC KNOWLEDGE IN MUSLIM SCHOOLS
Children are also also exposed to more Islamic knowledge in a Muslim school.
“I know a lot of Canadian-born brothers and sisters who have been to public schools [and] have a big problem learning Arabic Duas and Quran, and sometimes there is also a difference in the way they think about Islam or certain things,” says Taha Ghayyur, 19, national coordinator of the Young Muslims of Canada, an Ontario-based youth organization.
But others, like Shabbir Mansuri, founding director of the Fountain Valley, California-based Council on Islamic Education, see the Islamic knowledge offered by many Muslim schools as limited.
Mansuri has three daughters. Muslim schools were not available in his area for his two older when they were growing up. But they were for his youngest daughter, now 18, who attended one.
While he acknowledged that, “she was able to learn Surahs [and] verses from the Quran,” he adds, “but did the school make a difference in the thinking and understanding of those Quranic verses? The answer is no.”
MANY MUSLIM SCHOOLS ARE DISORGANIZED
Regardless of the comparatively healthier environment, Muslim schools, in general have their problems with organization.
Alkhateeb says sticking to rules, starting and ending classes on time, for example, are a problem for many Muslim schools.
Another difficulty is staff turnover which is due to two other problems: poor wages for teachers and culture clashes at the administrative level.
POOR WAGES FOR TEACHERS IN MUSLIM SCHOOLS
Alkhateeb point to the “horrible” wages teachers are offered at most Muslim schools as part of the explanation for staff turnover.
Many Muslim schools, struggling to stay open and in some cases, relying mostly on private donations apart from the fees they collect, depend on the good intentions and the Islamic spirit of Muslims like Emerick who are willing to teach at low salaries. Explaining his reason for choosing to teach at a Muslim school over a public one which pays better, Emerick writes:
“I couldn't justify to myself going
to a school every morning in which I would
not be allowed to mention Islam and its truth. I couldn't bring myself to go
to a school and teach a bunch of students useful worldly knowledge when I
know that later that day they will be getting drunk, dancing, having
premarital relations, swearing, smoking and such. Who would I be making
stronger? If I don't teach in a Muslim school, then someone else will have
to be found and the children may not benefit from my experience and
enthusiasm for the Deen.”
AN OVERALL BAD ADMINISTRATIVE MODEL
A top-down leadership approach, imported from “back home” versus a more team-oriented, North American-based horizontal leadership approach are also cause for clashes in many Muslim schools.
Alkhateeb explains that in the first case, the person in charge thinks a good leader is someone who bosses everyone around, without consulting anyone. This, in fact, is seen as a drawback. In the second case, consultation is part of the process, and the head of an organization engages in this with fellow workers.
This culture clash in leadership perception leads many Muslim school teachers to quit in frustration, she says.
THE COST OF MUSLIM SCHOOLS-TWO VIEWS
One problem many parents complain about is the cost of Muslim schools. In fact, cost is in some cases the defining factor in whether or not a child goes to a Muslim school or not.
While there are families who cannot
afford to send their kids, Emerick argues that “Most Muslims in the suburbs
(where most schools are located), own
houses, multiple cars, take vacations to Pakistan or Syria and wear the best
clothes. Many Muslim schools discount their official rates for true hardship cases. The school I work at has about 15 free students out of a total population of 70 students!”
“What is more expensive? Paying a
little and having a better chance your
child will make it to Jannah, or saving a measly sum and crying in twenty
years when you realize your child is not a Muslim and doesn't care about
anything except what you did earlier, namely money?” he asks.
ACADEMIC STANDARDS: HOW DO MUSLIM SCHOOLS FARE?
“Most of the Muslim schools have not developed to the point of being comparable academically to a well-run Christian private school or Jewish private school for that matter,” says Alkhateeb.
But not all Muslim schools fit this description. Aqsa school for girls in Chicago CHECK is one example. It offers schooling for girls only from grades 4 until 12, and education for boys at the elementary level.
According to Khawla Nassar, an Arabic and Religion teacher at the school, their graduates have gone on to Harvard and Yale, have pursued medicine, law, or have continued seeking higher degrees even after getting married and having children.
Their experience at the Muslim school, ““instilled in them the value of education,” she explains.
DO MUSLIM SCHOOLS CREATE INSULAR CHILDREN?
Some parents fear their kids will become closed and insular if they attend a school of Muslims only. A mother at one of Sound Vision’s message board on Parenting writes: “...I have seen many children who went to Islamic schools who cannot interact with their American neighbors. They feel shy or feel like they cannot talk to them. I don't want my child going through that. I want her to be able to interact with all the children here in the US.”
But Emerick strongly rebuts this notion.
“Do Muslim kids who attend Christian
schools in Pakistan have any danger of
becoming closed to their society? Are Jewish kids who attend Jewish schools
in America somehow socially stunted or unable to cope with American society?” he asks.
“No and no,” he answers.
PUTTING THE PROBLEMS IN MUSLIM SCHOOLS IN PERSPECTIVE
For all of their problems, and their different opinions about this issue, everyone interviewed for this article expressed strong support for Muslim schools.
Mansuri says parents must devote more than just money occasionally to support Muslim schools. They must devote time and commitment as well.
Alkhateeb says the problems are, “a necessary element of the eventual excellence of Muslim schools. I think the Muslim schools are on the letter ‘H’ on a scale of A to Z. H stands for How To. They’re still learning How To. And that’s okay.”
“The public school system is never going to be everything that practicing Muslim parents want it to be for their children,”she adds. These parents want every aspect of a school to be Islamic: its ethics, raison d’etre and the style in which teachers are motivated.
Some of the problems in public schools include chronic misinformation textbooks, the issue of food, clothing for physical education, proms, dances and other unIslamic social events.
THE REAL ISSUE: IT ALL STARTS IN THE HOME - PARENTS’ RESPONSIBILITY
But what is often disregarded in the whole debate is the role parents and the family play in a child’s Islamic development, which is much more important, many say, than which school the child attends.
“We’re asking Muslim schools to perform the tasks that we as parents are supposed to perform,” says Mansuri. “The Muslim schools are not supposed to be substitutes for parental responsibility.”
“Muslim schools are not an answer.,” he adds. “An Islamic environment that incorporates all the principles of Islam is an answer. If I succeed in doing that gradually then I would have an option of sending them to Muslim schools and or public schools.”
With regards to the dangerous environment found in many public schools, Alkhateeb says, “the public school is not the reason for Muslim kids getting into drugs, alcohol and wild dating. The reason is that the parents of these Muslims kids have not developed a secure relationship of knowledge and trust and humility [with their kids].”